I know it will get easier but right now I don't think I will ever be ok. My baby died and a part of me died with it. My husband is adamant that he will not go through this again and is getting a vasectomy. Now I have a barren hole where my baby was and it will never be anything more.
4 weeks ago
3 gentle comments:
My heart goes out to you, Lara. I am so sorry for your loss. Your comment on my blog really touched me. It made me think about so many things that we in "blog land" don't consider when we take to the keyboard to voice our opinions and ideals (many of which we have yet to realize in our own lives) and make our sisters in the Lord feel inadequate. I think you've given me a wake up call. and by all means, take a break fromthe blogs whenever they move from being encouraging to being condemning. None of us is perfect.
Saw your comment on Terry's wonderful blog, Breathing Grace, and thought I'd stop in and say hello. I'm very sorry about your baby. Please know that I have prayed for you. Mary.
I also want to say, Lara, that getting a vasectomy now would not be a wise choice. I too, made the decision for a vasectomy years ago when I was emotional and upset. Now I regret it.
I'm not saying this is the wrong choice for you family, but it would help tremendously if major life decisions were not made during crisis or grief. JMHO of course.
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